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This website is a posthumous publication of a prolific writer: the late Betty McLain.

Revisit and refresh the site as it evolves to read additional pieces of her vast penned portfolio, from childhood memories to travel tips.

Scroll down to preview a selection of various entries from Betty’s beloved, rich, adventurous life…

(Curator’s Note: more posts were added 26 June 2024. New site design in progress…)

BETTY McLAIN OBITUARY

Found love 

Through family, partners, classmates

And helpful people around the world.

Found joy

In travel, skating, dance, 

Reading,  writing, learning.

Found adventure

In back roads travel–

By ferry, foot, and public bus

On ostrich, elephant and camel.

Became a life-long laugher, learner, 

And sometimes crier.

Because life slips away too soon.

Anticipated final chapter.

This one alone concludes in peace.

Much gratitude to caregiver daughter, Linnai and caregiver son, Michael, companionship of Jim Neumann in our later years, and the overwhelming love from our large extended family.

Please no tears or prayers or flowers or donations. Your memory is your greatest gift.

THE FAIR AT 85!

Got up on Thursday morning, dressed for my one-hour-a-week dance, saw the weather forecast, and jumped in the car to go to the treasured Puyallup Fair. Jim came too, so we could share nostalgia of days gone by. Me remembering the half day off school, the big yellow bus that took us there, the chance to freely chase after boys. Saving my baby-sitting money (25 cents an hour) and berry picking money, accumulated over months.

This year I paid to park for the first time ever. Excitedly raced to the scone booth. $3!!! I bought two, unfortunately, and choked the 2nd one down—so dry. No butter/raisins. Coffee $5 and so weak. Employees are friendly and very, very old or handicapped. How do they work, standing all day?

Slogged along behind Jim through the commercial building (so much over-priced “stuff”). Hot. I sit in the shade, too often, and people watch. Lots of couples, all ages but mostly elderly (this was a weekday after all). Many in their scooters, happily whipping along.

Time for ice cream.

My daughter Linnai texted that she was dropping by after work just as she had during the many years she came to watch my dedicated seniors perform. (tears of remembrance here)

Time for a “fair burger” with onions. Delicious as ever.

Linnai and I scoured the art and photography exhibit. Never made it to the quilts or the cows or the horses or the sheep (Jim said there were very few this year).

As I passed by the rides, especially my favorite, the Merry Mixup, I longed to try it again ($6 a ride!). Maybe next year, if there is a “next year.”

“Meet me at the Gold Gate”, I messaged Jim. He sat at the Gold Gate as I made my way out through the Red Gate. I was distracted by thoughts of all those years of dragging heavy costumes to the car.

Exhausted, I drove home through Seattle traffic, grateful to get home. . .

Poem for Jim

I once was remembering Jim

So tall, so handsome and trim.

And now we’re together

Through sunny or troubling weather

But committed through thick and through thin.

COVID DAYS ARE HERE AGAIN

Today we picked up 29 abandoned masks on our short walk up Queen Anne Hill!

Yesterday we saw 15 beautiful young prostitutes along Highway 99.

Today we picked up an at-home apnea test for Jim, the size of a tennis ball (instead of staying overnight in the hospital with a dozen wires stuck to him).

Tomorrow he has an appointment to return the device with an evaluation on whether to get a sleep apnea machine. Ugh. Whirring? Noisy?

Today we went into Trader Joe’s with our masks back on. aaarrrgghh

Yesterday I was told I could get a “booster” Covid shot at CVS. They sent me away.  

Today the Mountaineers folk dance was again canceled, after dancing for 6 weeks. (I didn’t).

Today the sun is shining, but is mercifully moderate.

Today I am healthy and happy, but I can no longer watch TV news.

Tomorrow will bring. . . who knows what next?

IVAN THE GORILLA

When I was growing up, there was a huge store in Tacoma called the B & I. At that time, it was considered okay to put animals in cages in zoos so people could see them. The animals were not happy because they missed their families and friends. They were all alone. It was very sad. That is not done anymore because they want the animals to be in a more natural setting.

Anyway, Ivan was a young gorilla who sat in a cage in the middle of the B & I all by himself for 20 years. I think everyone who saw him loved Ivan. My friend Nat used to go out in front of the B & I every Saturday with a big sign that said “FREE IVAN”. I thought that was a very strange thing to do at that time.

Now there is a movie out called “The One and Only Ivan”. I hope to see it, although I might cry.

What do you think? If I told you there was a happy ending to this true story, what would it be?

LESSONS LEARNED

LOST MY SHOES—not the $20 Walmart specials, but my new $150 walking shoes. (fell out of the car??)

LOST MY WALLET—out of coat breast pocket on a Sunday in Tacoma. How could this happen? “Call the number on the back of your Visa card” doesn’t do much good when the card is gone! Spent all day Monday canceling cards, getting new license, etc. at the same time that my credit union changed their internet procedures and I couldn’t get into my accounts. Anyway, my wallet was turned in at Home Depot intact (no cash) after someone tracked me down through the West Seattle Center where I haven’t been in seven months.

FOUND MY UNDIES DUMPED IN A TRASH BIN—I’m starting to worry. . .

THE LESSON—it would have been so much easier if I had Xeroxed or scanned ANY and ALL items in my wallet! May I strongly recommend to all of you to set aside a brief session to do this yourself. You might include a phone contact for each item as well. I’ve learned a lesson and plan to do that right now.